wedding clothing.

okay people. there have been MANY MANY MANY miscommunications about what you minions are going to wear the the wedding ceremony/pool party. here is a very detailed list of what is acceptable. :]

women:
white or black, or both shirt. it can be a regular old tee shirt (though no holes please... a little nicer than that!!) or a very fancy shmacy get up. you can accent with red or silver. example: a red cami under a v neck shirt. eh? they HAVE to be at least cap sleeves (and have to have BOTH sleeves ;] tee hee) and no cleavage.. for pants, dark jeans. they can be black, indigo, navy, anything. the only thing i ask for the jeans, please no holes. it is a wedding, a very casual one, yes, but its my wedding regardless.

men:
white or black, or both shirt. it can be a regular old tee shirt or a nice button up. i'm not picky about that, just the coloring. you can also accent with red or silver, just please no ties. and for the pants, dark jeans. they can be black, indigo, navy, anything. but they have to be jeans, not dress slacks. and please, no holes.

mothers/grandmothers/great-grandmothers:
a black dress, or a black skirt with white or black top. you can accent with red or silver. we are having you in dresses/skirts to set you apart from everyone else since we're not doing corsages. please no tank tops/spaghetti straps. and please please please no cleavage!! ;]

fathers/grandfathers/great-grandfathers:
black slacks/dress pants with a white button up. if you wish to wear short sleeves, please go ahead, it is a late spring wedding after all! we will provide you with matching ties so people know that you are the fathers since we're not doing boutineers (or whatever).

sisters/sister in laws:
please refer to women. we are making red felt flowers for you to wear in your hair or as a pin. that is what will set you apart from everyone else.

brothers/brother in laws:
please refer to men. we're not making you wear anything special.. i'm sorry. :[ if you want a red felt flower. let me know and i'll custom make you one. ;]

flower girls/train helpers:
black dresses, or black skirts with black or white tops. you can accent with red or silver. please no strapless/spaghetti straps and please no low cut! even though they are little girls, we dont want to embarrass them in front of everyone if something was to happen....

ring bearers:
black slacks/dress pants and a white button up. thats all you gotta wear little guys!!

groomsman:
nelson. what are you doing looking at my blog!! ;] haha, black slacks/dress pants with a black button up shirt. the shirt is what is setting you apart from the old men. we are providing you a tie.

maid of honor:
lulu. we gotcha covered. just dont look better than me. it is my wedding after all.

swim party:
GO BANANAS!! i dont care what you wear, cause quite honestly, i've already ask enough of you guys!! please, enjoy yourselves and dont forget your swimming suit if you want to swim!! i love you, and if you have any questions. you probably have my number, if not, you probably have austin's so just ask him for mine.

caution:
if you aren't in something compatible with this, and by not compatable, i mean like electric pink mini skirt and a sports bra with gogo boots, we love you and welcome you to our wedding, just dont expect to be in the pictures. im sorry, its for the pictures and the pictures are what im stuck looking at for the rest of my life, i want them to look AMAZING!! if you are intending on wearing something a little different but more or less the same, just please please give me a call and i'm not too crazy to not listen and agree or disagree, depending on how close or far you are from these guidelines. :]